If you're a queen, you're powerless, so I'd probably demote myself and go shopping.
Columbus only discovered that he was in some new place. He didn't discover America.
The part you don't expect when you start out is all the people who come into your life wanting a piece of you, not caring about your wellbeing. The insane schedule is very difficult. Touring looks very glamourous but it's hard and gruelling - the travelling, the meet-and-greets - it was too crazy.