I have the ordinary experience of being anonymous when I'm in an airplane talking to air-traffic control, and they don't know who they're talking to. I have a lot of common experiences.
The decision is 'trust fund' versus 'no more Medicaid' - and that shouldn't be a tough decision.
In Hollywood people lie to each other and cheat each other and then go and play tennis. But I don't want to be a tennis player.