I love to sing and I do think that my strength as a singer is... I think I have a voice that is certainly sufficient under most any circumstances... but I think my strength is that I really am an actor and I really do have to own what I am saying.
I feel that life is short, so we should be disciplined, but at the same time we should have a good time.
Give people enough guidance to make the decisions you want them to make. Don't tell them what to do, but encourage them to do what is best.