As they say in the bible, that you're supposed to rejoice when people die and mourn when they're born, because it's one of the most painful acts you go through in life, is being born, and dying.
“We have all had the experience of finding that our reactions and perhaps even our deeds have denied beliefs we thought were ours.”
“Resolution One: I will live for God. Resolution Two: If no one else does, I still will.”