I know from teaching that actors want to act. Even the subtlest actors can do a little too much.
I see no room in holy Scripture for any sexual activity outside of matrimony.
Jainism has two ways of looking at things: one called Dravyarthekaraya and the other Paryayartheka Noya. According to the Dravyarthekaraya view the universe is without beginning and end, but according to the Paryayartheka view we have creation and destruction at every moment.