I have from time to time been a double A or triple A personality. I'm not anymore. I'm more lenient on myself.
In life I've learned one thing; if you want to be good you have to connect with the best people. So I got very close to the high-stakes players here. I get to watch them and play with them a little bit.
There is another side to chivalry. If it dispenses leniency, it may with equal justification invoke control.

