The welfare culture tells the man he is not a necessary part of the family; he feels dispensable, his wife knows he is dispensable, his children sense it.
“It's easy to play any musical instrument: all you have to do is touch the right key at the right time and the instrument will play itself.”
“You will be pleased to know I stand obediently for the national anthem, though of course I would defend your right to remain seated should you so decide.”