If you're truly in a band and you guys have been together for a long time, there's a family bond that you have. In fact, I've talked about this with therapists, especially if you're talking about a relationship, because when you're with somebody, you're going to your family, and she's alone.
“In the best farce today we start with some absurd premise as to character or situation, but if the premises be once granted we move logically enough to the ending.”