If you're truly in a band and you guys have been together for a long time, there's a family bond that you have. In fact, I've talked about this with therapists, especially if you're talking about a relationship, because when you're with somebody, you're going to your family, and she's alone.
“When I was a young man, I was overly sensitive to things, and I found it difficult to eat when I was nervous.”
“My initial response was to sue her for defamation of character, but then I realized that I had no character.”