In order to be rated as good as a good man in the field of her earnings, she must show herself better than he. She must be more steady, or more trustworthy, or more skilled, or more cheap in order to have the same chance of employment.
One of the most ephemeral and important things is atmosphere and tone and it's very hard to put your finger on what creates that.
Our best theories are not only truer than common sense, they make more sense than common sense.

