If you desire information on some point of law, you are not likely to ponder over the ponderous tomes of legal writers in order to obtain the knowledge you seek, by your own unaided efforts.
Not sure of my place in the world (still up for debate) and not sure what I wanted to do with my life (not really up for debate).
I decide immediately if I like a person and if I do, then I'm myself, and if I don't, then I give nothing.