I think that when something happens when you're growing up, like a death or divorce, it does open the world slightly because things aren't as straightforward.
We grew to know the meaning of love. That is what allowed me and my family to stay close together.
Whenever you play dance music, it serves a function. It becomes a utility; you have to worry about the tempos and what you're going to play for people. But when you're playing for listening, you're free.