One thing I think kids need to do is more chores, and take care of their own rooms. Responsibilities are really important to start them with. If they have animals, they have to feed them and care for them. That's the only way I think I could do it.
I feel like God has forgiven me of so much, that I will forgive everyone who has hurt us.
I think, ultimately, looking back now, acting wasn't satisfying me 100%.