I guess you kind of got to realize that once you in a marriage, whatever it is, you gotta deal with it. Not necessarily that you got to accept it, but you have to deal with it and try your best to make it work for you, for the both of you.
“The character is close to me, except that I haven't lived through those situations, so it's not completely me.”
“I have had my results for a long time: but I do not yet know how I am to arrive at them.”