Hearing is a form of touch. I could hear less through the ears but more through the body.
My stay-married secret would probably be exercising good communication, not when you have to but all the time. I think if you do that, you kinda just cleanse the situations, so there's not build up. I think that's probably the best way to do it.
Moreover, if the territorial state is to continue as the last word in the development of society, then war is inevitable.

