If your potential mate does not have the same perspective that you do then you're going to be lost.
I think this happens to a lot of people, men and women, where you reach a point in your life and all of a sudden realize that things have changed. You suddenly realize that people are coming up behind you, that maybe somebody might want to replace you for less money.
Usually I write about what I care about, which is a weakness but I think also a strength.