As for death one gets used to it, even if it's only other people's death you get used to.
There's an alternative. There's always a third way, and it's not a combination of the other two ways. It's a different way.
I enjoyed the position I was in as a tennis player. I was to blame when I lost. I was to blame when I won. And I really like that, because I played soccer a lot too, and I couldn't stand it when I had to blame it on the goalkeeper.

