Most New Yorkers want to look amazing, and they want you to understand that they look amazing, but they also want you to stop staring at them.
I'll never forget the day that I was told I would have to have a mastectomy. My reaction to the words was total denial.
I used to have to force myself to go, okay, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing and then all of a sudden a thought of some where could come in. Now I can just focus and not think about anything. So, yeah, I guess I do that a lot.