A wise parent humors the desire for independent action, so as to become the friend and advisor when his absolute rule shall cease.
Once you come up with a premise, you have to work out how it all happened. It's a bit like coming up with a spectacular roof design first. Before you can get it up there, you need to build a solid foundation and supporting structure.
I enjoy singing, and the instruments which truly move me are the horn, the trumpet and the cello.