What's called a difficult decision is a difficult decision because either way you go there are penalties.
I merely consider myself a father, and one role of a father is to provide financial resources for his family.
Racism oppresses its victims, but also binds the oppressors, who sear their consciences with more and more lies until they become prisoners of those lies. They cannot face the truth of human equality because it reveals the horror of the injustices they commit.