We're in a situation where the solutions that we have are not good enough. The way to improve anything is to have a discussion about its flaws. To understand what the one or two or three things are about it that would help fix it. The DMCA makes it dangerous to have that conversation.
It takes a lot of work to put together a marriage, to put together a family and a home.
It is in the thirties that we want friends. In the forties we know they won't save us any more than love did.