I have lots of friends and, like me, they're not married. So my kids have lots of godparents - men and women, gay and straight. My loft is always filled with people helping me out with them and loving them.
The senses deceive from time to time, and it is prudent never to trust wholly those who have deceived us even once.
With Spotify, people don't get it until they try it. Then they tell their friends.