I guess I do have a childlike sense of fun, and although I still have my dark days, I'm generally an optimistic person. The way things have gone in my life, sure, I could have been a bitter person. But I just find bitter people really un-fun, you know? And who wants to be that person?
I don't like long tours. I find it much easier to go out for a short spurt every month.
Also, in a funny way, if you have been happily married there are no unresolved areas, nothing to prove to yourself after the other dies.

