Happiness grows at our own firesides, and is not to be picked in strangers' gardens.
I used to spend most of my time straining to be a nice guy so people would like me.
A lot of the main characters in horror movies are outsiders as well, so that outsider syndrome reverberates within horror fans and geeky collectors. It's kind of a rallying call that brings fans and collectors together who are a little socially retarded, maybe.