A common mistake that people make when trying to design something completely foolproof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools.
They see a work ethic in both of us. But, they also see that my husband is more in control of his future, and I am more reliant on other sources for my career.
I am as omnivorous as it's possible to be. I always say there's nothing I won't eat and nothing I won't wear.