My daughter is very strong-willed and is a great kid. She doesn't drink. She doesn't smoke. She doesn't fold to peer pressure. I think how affectionate my wife and I have been with her over the years all plays into that. She realizes the more people she is exposed to that kids who have both parents
No religious position is loyally served by refusing to consider annoying theories which may well turn out to be facts.
The people who truly love me and loved me before all of this stuff. You can't ever leave them behind.