We still get those kind of cats coming out to our shows. Once you're into it, you're into it for a lifetime.
To be intimate with a married man, when my own father cheated on my mother, is not something I could forgive. I could not look at myself in the morning if I did that. I wouldn't be attracted to a man who would cheat on his wife.
No matter how painful something is, you have to take it. I saw that in both my parents.