It's kind of true, you do disappear off the planet if you are a middle-aged woman, but that has some advantages as well.
Home life ceases to be free and beautiful as soon as it is founded on borrowing and debt.
It's just that if you're not disruptive everything seems to be repeated endlessly - not so much the good things but the bland things - the ordinary things - the weaker things get repeated- the stronger things get suppressed and held down and hidden.