I considered Nat King Cole to be a friend and, in many ways, a mentor. He always had words of profound advice.
Part of the scientific temperament is this tolerance for holding multiple hypotheses in mind at the same time.
When we ask for love, we don't ask others to be fair to us-but rather to care for us, to be considerate of us. There is a world of difference here between demanding justice... and begging or pleading for love.

