These names: gay, queer, homosexual are limiting. I would love to finish with them. We're going to have to decide which terms to use and where we use them. For me to use the word 'queer' is a liberation; it was a word that frightened me, but no longer.
By the time a person has achieved years adequate for choosing a direction, the die is cast and the moment has long since passed which determined the future.
You haven't lost anything when you know were it is. Death can hide but not divide.

