Fatherhood will put a man through a lot, but it's a tremendous job, the best in the world - even better than playing basketball.
If the power to do hard work is not a skill, it's the best possible substitute for it.
It was a very hard life. As I got older, the family was depending very much on me. My two older brothers got married, so they had their own families depending on them. I had seven people relying on me, so I worked in a grocery store.