There's an alternative. There's always a third way, and it's not a combination of the other two ways. It's a different way.
“Clint Eastwood is an extraordinary director because he knows the value of a buck. He knows where it will show on the screen.”
“Freud's view is that all love is sexual in its origin or its basis. Even those loves which do not appear to be sexual or erotic have a sexual root or core. They are all sublimations of the sexual instinct.”