There's an alternative. There's always a third way, and it's not a combination of the other two ways. It's a different way.
“When I was 6 years old, I was in a rock band that was horrible called 'Dead End.' The name kind of described us. People liked us; we would go and perform at coffee houses and stuff.”
“Most Kikuyu marriages were arranged on the basis of what is described by anthropologists as the bride price.”