It's a wonderful side effect of what we're doing, to give someone the strength to come out of the closet to their family, or simply present themselves aesthetically in a way they feel happy with, whether or not their friends are going to be allowed to like them anymore.
Above all be of single aim; have a legitimate and useful purpose, and devote yourself unreservedly to it.
I was 37 when my father died-and I no longer had any freedom of choice over what I would do with the rest of my life.

