My dad was vehemently opposed to electric guitars. He did not look on that kind of music as legitimate in any way.
But to do this kind of work, you have to be very strong, otherwise you lose your personality, your identity.
It was always inevitable that if you get serious trouble in any family then everybody's inclined to look at the head of that family and see if they see any cause or reason to associate it with the head of the, head of the family, why it should be.

