It is advertising and the logic of consumerism that governs the depiction of reality in the mass media.
I don't get it. If you're saying, Tommy Lee, you don't fit the image of the East Coast, social elitist wealthy people who comprise Harvard, the only thing I can say is you have no idea what comprises Harvard.
Long tresses down to the floor can be beautiful, if you have that, but learn to love what you have.