I tell my students, it's not difficult to identify with somebody like yourself, somebody next door who looks like you. What's more difficult is to identify with someone you don't see, who's very far away, who's a different color, who eats a different kind of food. When you begin to do that then lite
To try to write love is to confront the muck of language: that region of hysteria where language is both too much and too little, excessive and impoverished.
There is as much wisdom in listening as there is in speaking - and that goes for all relationships, not just romantic ones.