At this stage of my life, I've dedicated myself to playing what I want to play, how I want to play it for the rest of my time. Regardless of whether one might like it or one might not like it, this is where I am.
I truly feel that there are as many ways of loving as there are people in the world and as there are days in the life of those people.
I do not feel certain until I have confronted my initial solution with other solutions - although in fact the first solution often proves to be the right one.