There's no way to approach anything in an objective way. We're completely subjective; our view of the world is completely controlled by who we are as human beings, as men or women, by our age, our history, our profession, by the state of the world.
But I'm not worried about seeking out the approval of others - that high school thing of joining the club.
He might never really do what he said, but at least he had it in mind. He had somewhere to go.

