“Here's the thing: the unit of reverence in Europe is the family, which is why a child born today of unmarried parents in Sweden has a better chance of growing up in a house with both of his parents than a child born to a married couple in America. Here we revere the couple, there they revere the fam”

“Forty is the line of demarcation that says you're an adult now. You're an adult, so don't pretend you're a kid anymore.”