I have this firm belief that I am who I am for a reason. If I change something, I'm cheating myself of whatever it is I'm supposed to learn from my body. You know, I'm legally blind. I'm 20/750, since I was in fifth grade. I wear glasses and contacts. But I won't even get LASIK.
It's the perfect definition of a settlement. Both parties didn't get what they wanted.
Do not make best friends with a melancholy sad soul. They always are heavily loaded, and you must bear half.