Just be your authentic self because there's nothing sexier or more beautiful than that.
For at least another hundred years we must pretend to ourselves and to every one that fair is foul and foul is fair; for foul is useful and fair is not. Avarice and usury and precaution must be our gods for a little longer still.
If I do something caring for a friend, I have no doubt in my mind they would do it for me.