I'm always a big fan of if you approach somebody politely about something and you're not a nudge - you're just pretty honest and simple, my kind of philosophy is that I'm not afraid of 'no,' and that's way different than 'I won't take no for an answer.'
There are whole precincts of voters in this country whose united intelligence does not equal that of one representative American woman.
I refused to conform to an image that a lot of people thought a president's brother should adopt.