An actor really suffers when the director isn't prepared because you start running out of time for the shoot and then have to do it fast.
Following our inner guidance may feel risky and frightening at first, because we are no longer playing it safe, doing what we 'should' do, pleasing others, following rules, or deferring to outside authority.
I think people should be free to engage in any sexual practices they choose; they should draw the line at goats though.