I broke my ankle ten years ago so high heels are not an option unless I'm literally going door to door for a function.
I would advise you to write, my dear friend, because with your active nature, solitude is simply intolerable to you, and after some time your solitude would become perhaps attractive if you were to people it with creatures of your own fancy.
It took us three years to even come close to catching up with the demand a little bit.