A lot of what I've been learning in the last two years is due to therapy - about my sexuality, why things go wrong, why relationships haven't worked. It isn't anything to do with anybody else; it's to do with me.
I fell in love with many women at school who had no idea I existed. I'm a bit of a romantic.
You do the right thing even if it makes you feel bad. The purpose of life is not to be happy but to be worthy of happiness.