My goal is for Gunnar to outlive me. That's the way it should be. My dream is for him to be a dad himself one day, so he can find out all the anxiety that kids bring to their dads.
But I think one of the reasons I tend to stay in the water most of the time is I distrust the comfort.
But I'll never be one of those women who feel that they always have to wear earrings and aren't properly dressed without them.

