I'm more married to Sandy now than when we were married with the legal document. We're still married as parents.
Polite and velvety leaders, who take care to avoid bruising others, are generally not as effective at forcing change.
I do still get the odd fan letter about The Good Life, clearly written by somebody aged 18, who says: Will you send a photograph? And I think: Maybe it's kinder not to. I'm deeply into my 50s now.

