It's like you asked me about the depression thing: you grope towards an understanding of whatever it is your going through, and it's not personal, there are forces in play around you, and you seek to understand them and that way you can go on.
“The aging process has you firmly in its grasp if you never get the urge to throw a snowball.”
“I grew up playing sports, football, basketball, baseball, everything, and acting was such a different environment and different world for me.”