Our skin colours may vary, but what's upstairs - there's certain things we've all got in common.
But the most important thing about that story, which is not often told, is that as a result after the Cuban missile crisis, immediate steps were taken to correct our inability to collect on the movement of nuclear material out of the Soviet Union to other places.
When you truly give up trying to be whole through others, you end up receiving what you always wanted from others.