Any therapist will tell you that when you're ready, you will come out. To be outed means you weren't ready.
“Don't get me wrong - I've gone to a club. But I'd much rather be with my close friends at home or a concert, or on a trip. I'll go dancing with my grandma. She likes to cut a rug!”
“The biggest break in my career was getting into the Beatles in 1962. The second biggest break since then is getting out of them.”