Men become much more attractive when they start looking older. But it doesn't do much for women, though we do have an advantage: make-up.
All women do have a different sense of sexuality, or sense of fun, or sense of like what's sexy or cool or tough.
I should do something about the cigarettes; I quite accept that it's bad for your health, but you know a moderate tipple is positively beneficial and, at certain times, absolutely essential.